Asikholwa isalukazi saseTholeni ukuthi nakuba sesineminyaka emingaka kodwa yima sikotiza emzini.
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ASIKHOLWA isalukazi (70) saseTholeni, eMbumbulu, ukuthi nakuba sesineminyaka emingaka kodwa yima sikotiza emzini emuva kokulotsholwa okokuqala empilweni yaso yisoka leminyaka.
UNksz Qondeni Ndlovu obevele ethandana noMnuz Njabulo Nkosi (84) waseNquthu banezingane eziyisithupha kodwa sekusele ezintathu kanye nabazukulu abathathu.
Lezi zithandani zimangaze imindeni yazo ngokuthatha isinqumo sokushada emuva kwesikhathi eside zijola.
NgoMgqibelo uNksz Ndlovu uzolethelwa izibizo abasemzini wakhe abazosuka eNquthu bezombesa kubo bese emuliswa ngosuku olulodwa.
Utshele Isolezwe ukuthi bekhula uNkosi wayevele enesifiso sokuthi bashade besebasha kodwa kwaba nguye obhala ecisha ngoba enovalo lokushada nomuntu wesilisa angakamazi kahle ukuthi ungumuntu onjani.
“Ngijabulisa okwengane encane futhi ngizimisele ngokuyokotiza kubo ngenze konke okwenziwa omakoti uma begana.
Ngiyamthanda umyeni wami ngoba uyangihlonipha futhi kunendlela angibonisa ngayo uma ngisephutheni.
Selokhu sathandana asikaze sikipite, sibonana kanye ngenyanga futhi nemindeni yethu ibiseseka,” kusho uNksz Ndlovu.
Echaza ngokuthandana kwakhe noNkosi, uthe kwaqala ngesikhathi behlangana edolobheni eThekwini kuWest Street ngo-1969.
Uthe kusuka lapho uthando lwabo lwakhula baze bathola izingane njengoba umagcino wabo eno-33 weminyaka.
Uthe ukungahlali ndawonye kwabo bebehlonipha imiyalelo yabazali babo yokungakipiti yize bese benomndeni wabo.
“Lokhu sakwenza ukukhombisa nezingane zethu ukuthi akubusisiwe ukukipita.
Umshado uhlelwa uNkulunkulu ngakho akumele intsha isheshe iphonse ithawula uma singakafiki isikhathi sokuthola umendo.
Ngifisa bathathe isifundo sokungajahi njengami ukuze kufike isikhathi esifanele sebazi ngempilo,” uNksz Ndlovu.
UNkosi uthe yonke leminyaka elindile bekungekho okuphazamisa ubudlelwano bakhe ngoNksz Ndlovu.
Uthe yize kwakuyiphupho lakhe kwakudala ukumshada emchitha kodwa ngoba sebegcine bevumelene weneme kakhulu.
“Ngithanda indlela azithobe ngayo nokuziphatha kahle yonke leminyaka sithandana.
Akukho okusha engingathi ngisakulindele ngaphandle kokuthola ithuba lokuhlala nonkosikazi wami emuva komshado omhlophe,” kusho uNkosi.
Udadewabo omncane kamakoti uNkk Topsy Gumede (51), uthe ithemba alibulali ngempela ngoba bashada nodadewabo osashona wasala usisi wabo emdala engalotsholwa.
“Angikakholwa ngoba bathandana nosibali ngisemncane njengoba sebezolobolana manje.
Nangelanga lomshado ngobe ngiseceleni kwakhe usisi ngoba sesisele sobabili,” kusho uNkk Gumede.
UNksz Ndlovu uthe umshado omhlophe uzoba ngoDisemba nokuyilapho ezoyohlala emzini okokuqala ngqa afunde nokutheza njengabo bonke omakoti.